Thursday, July 16, 2009

Online Predators - The Hidden Danger in Your Home

There are many dangers outside the safety of your home environment. However it is the hidden ones inside your home that may be even more risky for your family. This insidious threat comes in the form of the Internet. Online predators are prevalent and you do not want to become yet another one of their victims. This is why it is important to talk to your children and try to protect them from this insidious threat.

Obviously the police can protect you in an outside environment but inside your home protection of yourself and your family becomes your responsibility. Part of this protection is getting to know all about the Internet. This will enable you to learn about other people, meet new friends and get to know how to use online tools.

Instant messaging and chat rooms are popular. Of course they have their entertainment value and can relieve boredom. However the key point to using these tools is to know how to do it safely. Here are some tips:

Information: personal information should never be given out to a stranger. Never give your full name or street address to anyone. This can get you into a lot of trouble. Many people just use a handle or nickname when they use the instant messaging or chat rooms.

Always give limited information: Of course you can give limited information in many ways and still stay safe. Just do not be too specific when you answer questions. There are in fact a variety of ways to make friends and not become involved with predators.

Do not trust anyone: it is important not to trust anyone no matter how nice they may seem. Predators are good at what they do and always put on a sweet face. Never let yourself get taken in and always remain alert. As soon as you start to trust someone and give out your personal information you will be at risk of a predator being able to find you and even harm you.

Keep open communication: You need to have an "open door" policy with your children and let them know they can talk with you anytime. Try to keep a good relationship with your children which will encourage open communication. If you do not do this they can seek support from others. It is very important not to make your children vulnerable. Develop good listening habits and be prepared to take time out and allow your child to talk frankly to you and bring any problems they have to you. When you do this you will find they are less likely to look for support online and be victimized by online predators.

Cathy is a professional writer and mother of 3 boys. Safety on the Internet is a prime concern for her. For more information on protecting your kids from online predators please pick up your free report here http://a1-fraud-protection.com

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